When We Fall Apart

You were 43 when you got the news

Life will be changing, nothing we can do

The clock is ticking now

All I can think about

Is knowing I have to move on without you somehow

And I just can’t believe

That you’re the one whose keeping it together

As you hold my hand and say

It’s ok to cry

It’s ok to fall apart

You don’t have to try

To be strong when you are not

And it may take sometime to make sense of all your thoughts

But don’t ever fight your tears

‘Cause there is freedom in every drop

Sometimes the only way to heal a broken heart is when we fall apart

You ask me to sing

Some songs that I wrote

And I can barely speak 

Can barely play a note

All my tears rush in

Falling on my strings

And make the sound of these progressions have a different ring

And I hate to say goodbye 

Knowing this will be the last time we’re together

As you close your eyes and say

It’s ok to cry

It’s ok to fall apart

You don’t have to try

To be strong when you are not

And it may take sometime to make sense of all your thoughts

But don’t ever fight your tears

‘Cause there is freedom in every drop

Sometimes the only way to heal a broken heart is when we fall apart

And you’ve got the gift of mercy

Don’t ever think it’s strange

Not a curse, but it is a blessing to feel other people’s pain

And always love without condition

And trust with all your heart

There’s healing in the story of your scars

Well, it’s been awhile

Since you’ve been gone

Sometimes I still catch myself trying to call your phone

All the hopes and dreams we used to talk about

They’re still alive in me and I just hope I make you proud 

Now I’m your legacy

And it’s your love still holding me together

And I still hear you say

It’s ok to cry

It’s ok to fall apart

You don’t have to try

To be strong when you are not

And it may take sometime to make sense of all your thoughts

But don’t ever fight your tears

‘Cause there is freedom in every drop

Sometimes the only way to heal a broken heart is when we fall apart

Story Behind

I remember the last words my mom spoke to me. She said on her death bed in our last conversation, ‘don’t ever think that you need to have it all together. Don’t ever think that you need to fight back your tears because sometimes the only way we see clearly is when we look through our tears. Sometimes our greatest act of strength is really our weakness. It’s in our surrender. And sometimes the only way we heal is when we just let go, crumble and fall apart.’” – Ryan Stevenson

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